Finding Balance: Professional Growth & Personal Connections
Mindful Relationship Wisdom from Dr. Lori Runge
3 Mindful Communication Techniques for Couples
What if the arguments in your relationship aren't really about the dishes, the schedule, or whose turn it is to handle something—but about feeling unseen, unheard, or disconnected from each other? After two decades of helping couples in McKinney and North Texas transform their relationships, I've learned that most partners don't have communication problems—they have presence problems. We're talking AT each other instead of WITH each other, multitasking while our partner shares something important, or defending our position before we've truly heard theirs. The good news? Mindful communication isn't complicated or time-consuming. These three techniques can shift your conversations immediately—creating connection instead of distance, understanding instead of defensiveness, and intimacy instead of isolation. Let me share practical tools you can start using today.
Individual Relationship Therapy: Help When Your Partner Won't Go
"My partner won't go to therapy." This is one of the most common—and most heartbreaking—statements I hear from people who desperately want to improve their relationship. Perhaps you've tried bringing it up, only to be met with resistance, dismissiveness, or promises that "we can figure it out ourselves." You might feel stuck, wondering if there's any hope for change when only one of you is willing to seek support. Here's what I want you to know: You don't need your partner's participation to begin transforming your relationship. Individual relationship therapy offers a powerful path forward—one where you'll develop new insights, communication skills, and ways of being that naturally shift the dynamics between you and your partner. Let me share how working on yourself can create profound ripples throughout your entire relationship.
Why Couples Fight More During the Holidays (And How to Actually Connect This Season)
For many couples in North Texas, the holidays bring more conflict than connection. Dr. Lori Runge, a marriage and family therapist specializing in couples counseling, explores why the season triggers relationship stress and how mindfulness can help you stay connected when everything else is pulling you apart.
When the Holidays Trigger Anxiety: A Therapist's Guide to Surviving (and Maybe Even Enjoying) the Season
The holidays are supposed to bring joy, but for many high-achieving professionals, they bring anxiety, exhaustion, and emotional overwhelm. Dr. Lori Runge, a mindfulness-based therapist in McKinney, Texas, explores why the holidays trigger stress and offers practical tools for finding peace during the season.
5 Signs Your Relationship Needs Couples Therapy
Have you noticed that the same conversations keep happening in your relationship—the ones where you both feel unheard, misunderstood, or stuck in a pattern that seems impossible to break? You're not alone. Many couples in McKinney and North Texas wait years before seeking support, believing that "things will get better on their own" or that therapy is only for relationships in crisis. But what if I told you that couples therapy isn't just about fixing what's broken—it's about creating something more meaningful, more connected, and more alive? As a licensed marriage and family therapist who has spent decades helping couples transform their relationships, I've learned that the strongest partnerships are the ones where both people are willing to grow together. Here are five signs that professional support could help you create the relationship you truly desire.
5 Signs You're Experiencing Executive Burnout (And What to Do About It)
Experiencing executive burnout? Former SVP & therapist Dr. Lori Runge shares 5 warning signs and proven strategies for sustainable leadership in North Texas.
Present Moment Leadership: Improving Communication Through Mindfulness
Learn how mindful communication can revolutionize your leadership and personal relationships. North Texas therapist Dr. Lori Runge guides executives toward present moment leadership and authentic connection.
Creating a Shared Vision: Aligning Business Goals with Relationship Goals
Have you ever noticed how ambition can simultaneously fuel your success and challenge your closest relationships? For high-achieving couples, especially those running businesses together or pursuing demanding careers separately, competing priorities create unique tensions. Without intentional alignment, these competing demands create a subtle but persistent undercurrent of tension. Creating a shared vision doesn't mean abandoning individual dreams or compromising your ambition—it means intentionally designing a future where both your business and relationship can thrive.
Recognizing When Stress is Sabotaging Your Relationship
In the hustle of daily life, especially for busy couples throughout North Texas, stress often becomes so normalized that we barely recognize its presence—until it begins to undermine the very relationships we cherish most. Stress rarely announces itself clearly in relationships. Instead, it manifests in subtle patterns that couples often misinterpret as personality conflicts or compatibility issues. With mindful awareness and practical strategies, stress doesn't have to sabotage your relationship.
The Mindful Approach to Healing After Betrayal
Few relationship wounds cut as deeply as betrayal. Whether through infidelity, financial deception, or broken promises, betrayal shakes the foundation of trust upon which relationships are built. Mindfulness—the practice of present-moment awareness without judgment—creates the foundation for genuine healing by creating space to experience painful emotions without being overwhelmed by them. When couples approach betrayal recovery with mindfulness, they develop what one client called "emotional steadiness in the storm"—the ability to navigate intense feelings while still making conscious choices about healing.
Summer Slowdown: Using Vacation Time to Reconnect Mindfully
Summer in North Texas brings not just the heat but also an opportunity—a chance to step away from the daily demands of work and intentionally reconnect with your partner. Yet for many couples, vacation often becomes another source of stress rather than the rejuvenating experience it's meant to be. The difference between a vacation that rejuvenates your relationship and one that merely relocates your stress begins with planning for presence, not just pleasure. Learn how to create mindful vacation rituals that strengthen your connection.
The Family Business Couple: Separating Work Conflicts from Home Life
When you share both a business and a marriage with your partner, the lines between boardroom and bedroom can quickly blur. As someone who has worked extensively with family business couples throughout North Texas, I've witnessed firsthand how challenging it can be to leave work disagreements at the office and preserve the sanctity of your relationship. With mindful attention and practical strategies, you can maintain both a successful business partnership and a thriving marriage.
The Gottman Method: Building Stronger Relationships for Busy Executives and Entrepreneurs
As high-achieving professionals, maintaining a thriving relationship often takes a back seat to business demands. The Gottman Method offers evidence-based techniques specifically valuable for executives and entrepreneurs who need practical, efficient approaches to strengthen their relationships. Learn how these research-backed strategies can help you integrate professional success with personal fulfillment—creating a life where both your business and relationships flourish together.
Quieting the Inner Critic: How Negative Thoughts Impact Your Marriage
Did you know that you have between 12,000 to 60,000 thoughts racing through your mind daily? Even more surprising—95% of those thoughts are repetitions from yesterday. When those repetitive thoughts become predominantly negative or critical, they create a ripple effect that extends far beyond your own mind and directly into your relationship. Learn how mindfulness can help you quiet your inner critic and transform your marriage from a place of judgment to one of understanding and connection.
Men's Health and Mindfulness: Addressing Mental Wellness as Part of Overall Health
When we talk about men's health, mental wellness often remains unaddressed despite being vital to overall wellbeing. Mindfulness offers a valuable approach for men navigating mental health challenges, with recent studies showing just 10 minutes daily can significantly reduce depression and anxiety. Learn five practical mindfulness techniques specifically designed for men's health.
What to Actually Expect in Couples Therapy: A No-Nonsense Guide for Hesitant Men
Unsure about couples therapy? This straightforward guide explains what actually happens in sessions, debunks common misconceptions, and outlines the practical, solution-focused approach that helps men get tangible results from the therapy process. Learn what to expect before your first appointment.
Coping Strategies for Communication Challenges in Relationships
Communication challenges can strain even the strongest relationships. Discover professional guidance on creating emotional safety, mastering active listening, and building lasting communication skills with your partner.
Managing Work-Related Stress: Finding Balance in the Modern Workplace
In today's hyperconnected workplace, managing work-related stress has become more challenging—and more essential—than ever. Discover how mindfulness practices and evidence-based stress management techniques can help you create a sustainable work-life balance, boost productivity, and maintain wellbeing in an increasingly demanding professional environment. This comprehensive guide explores practical strategies that you can implement immediately to transform your relationship with workplace stress.
Decking the Halls While Running the Show: A Business Owner's Guide to Holiday Sanity
Managing business ownership during the holidays can feel overwhelming for entrepreneurs and small business owners in DFW. This guide offers practical mental health tips and stress management strategies to help you balance running your company while enjoying the holiday season. Learn how therapy for business owners can provide tools for setting boundaries, delegating effectively, and managing end-of-year anxiety. Discover expert advice from a Frisco business therapist on maintaining work-life balance during the busiest time of year. Perfect for entrepreneurs in McKinney, Plano, and Frisco looking to navigate holiday stress while leading their teams.
Boost Your Business Success: Harness the Power of Therapy
Learn how therapy can be transformative for your business and help with problem-solving and the challenges that come with entrepreneurship.
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